Since childhood I was always very dreamy and romantic. I dreamed of Prince Charming and that world pink all we want. My favorite love movie was Disney's Little Mermaid. I wanted to be Ariel and go with Eric who was handsome and happy forever. Long story short, always idealized love . I fell in love with love and still am. My love life is romantic love.
People always ask Will there be love? referring to "romantic love" because the "love of friendship" or "family love" is a fact for all (or at least that I see).
People always ask Will there be love? referring to "romantic love" because the "love of friendship" or "family love" is a fact for all (or at least that I see).
Who says no?
All who have gone through bad experiences in romantic love, we stop believing in it. The reason? Pain. The pain, suffering, sadness that we after a breakup takes away the illusion or idea that love exists. So I think that saying that love does not exist "is more like a defense mechanism. One is to convince it does not want to believe again for fear of being hurt.
The truth is that everyone interprets what is "love" their way. Some believe that they feel at first sight and others believe that they feel over time to meet the person. Some believe it is something that "is given or not given" and others believe it is something that gradually builds. And there are those who believe it is impossible to love one person and never again feel the "feeling" in his life.
I recently read a small book for class was on scientific research that have been made on this feeling called "love." (Now find me wandering the author's name and then put that but it is interesting.)
They say love is composed of a triangle. At the tip of the triangle is what is called privacy. At the tip of the left, the passion . And on top of the right, the commitment . When a person meets these three bases for the other person, is what would be the "ideal love."
explains that there are cases where we only meet two or only one of these bases. Some people just share the passion and intimacy with another person (but given in love relationships between young people). Other intimacy and commitment (a simple example are married couples who have many years of marriage), or passion and commitment (one case more rare as quickly marrying a person you felt passion but did not get to know her very well - intimate-). Even the person may just feel one of these things.
When you start a relationship with another person, both are looking to experience the "love." But it happens that idealizes love # 1 love "one way" and in love # 2 "otherwise." And love # 1 looks more like "this" and # 2 looks more in love "that." Each has a love triangle idealized, which is what you really want, what you think love is perfect.
Pa 'high love # 1 feel more passion for love # 2. But love # 2 feels more passionate intimacy with love # 1.
¿?????????????????
Love sucks.
So I think my ideal love will always be an illusion. Would really really difficult to love between two people is equivalent. I will not believe until you see and feel ...
why I have fear ...
of not finding a harmonious balance with a person, not have to be perfect, but at least harmonious ...
If it came to find, I'd rather die.
My point is ...
Love is complicated, but by no means be ignored. You have to look until you die in the attempt. Jaja brutal that I stay.
poetic voice is heard
- rather die in the attempt.
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